In particular, the famous prodom and sex coach Hudsy Hawn, explains in all her interviews that BDSM is first of all a lesson in erotic behavior. Based on the sadomasochistic sex that he possesses, he explains that we can draw conclusions about the so-called vanilla sex, that is, the "normal". So according to Ms. Hudsy Hawn, these are the three valuable tips that will take your love life to the next level with a touch of sadomasochism:
The atmosphere and the music are very important elements in every love affair. It is no coincidence that BDSM uses costumes, foreplay and specially designed rooms called Dungeons. That is why a special contact needs a suitable conept: Take care of the space, the lighting, the sheets, the music, the sex machines and why not the decoration. You will see that your adult playroom will be appreciated.
Exchanging opinions after sex with honesty and humor will make you get closer than you think. We do not clearly mean asking each other if they liked it, but making your account by getting feedback with real facts: what was great, what was not, what may have been ridiculous, what uncomfortable. A couple who talks freely about the sex they have, will have good sex and most importantly will not see the moment to have sex again.
Develop mutual trust between you. In relations of domination - submission, the sovereign may theoretically have the upper hand, but the limits are set by the submissive. How does he know he will respect them? She simply trusts him and when he says a word of "security" he will be heard. So, in vanilla sex, both partners must feel safe and confident with each other, because this makes them leave and enjoy without second thoughts.
We would add that you can also check out the entire BDSM collection of MegaSexShop and incorporate into your sex life the accessories that you think have some interest among whips, handcuffs, collars, mouth gags, masks, nipple clips- clitoris, penis cages, even toys for penistorture. Many times, an object is enough to spark our imagination, to stimulate our senses and to be the occasion to start a new journey of exploring paths that we had not walked before. And BDSM is always a great idea in small or large doses to renew our sexuality.
