Men love it as it is something "forbidden". Women often "fear" it for various reasons, including pain, morality and hygiene. The truth is that in the right way everything is done and a couple can enjoy anal sex if they agree and follow some easy steps to the back door.
First you need to get a good lubricant as you will both need enough lubrication to reduce friction and consequently pain. Additionally, you could use a cream that desensitizes the spot. It is definitely recommended to use a condom for anal intercourse for reasons of hygiene and safety.
Now in terms of anal stimulation, a lot of help is offered by the anal balls that one can put inside to prepare him for penetration as well as a butt plug, which one can "wear" to the size of one's liking so that to prepare her for sex by irritating that area.
When the act begins, listen to your partner and follow the advice: he or she will tell you how deep and how fast you will penetrate, do not take the initiative and hurt him / her because he / she will not like the experience and may want to stop. Even if you do not manage to have sex with the first one, it will have become a beginning and if you both want it, you will repeat it until you succeed. It is certain that when your partner stops hurting and starts to enjoy it, this type of sex will not be satisfied with anything. Just give it time to do it.
